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As his colleagues shared their farewells, I took notes:

“an upstanding man”
“a mentor, a coach, a friend”
“he assured everyone who worked with him, especially his interns, ‘this place is full of opportunities; if this is something you are interested in - go for it.”

I was the proverbial fly on the wall, listening and learning, at my brother’s retirement.

My brother “Three” ( of my four brothers) and I are thirteen months apart in age and have always been close. We both settled in the Washington, D.C. area after college. (Isn’t ‘settled’ a funny word to describe all the ups and downs, the gyrations, the unpredictability of life, anywhere?) The years have tumbled by, with so many loving connections – we hung out together as young singles, then we each got married, followed by a blur of years raising children, hosting playdates and sleepovers between our boys, family holidays and special dinners, supporting our parents in their declining health, music concerts, road races, and other fun pastimes, and holding each other up in times of grief and challenge. We have always shared stories about work with one another, but honestly, work life was never the primary topic of conversation – especially, I think, because we weren’t in the same field. He was a broadcaster and I was a teacher.

I knew he loved his work though.

When he was a child, he loved two things: sports and radio. He was always running around, playing sports, every imaginable physical game that came his way:  basketball, football, ping-pong, racquetball, baseball, tennis, whatever. Basketball was his all-time favorite sport. He also loved to listen to the radio. He played with the dial constantly, sifted through the AM stations, kept his ear out for Casey Kasem Top 40, and rushed to respond to “be the tenth caller…,” hoping to win a prize.

He won a huge prize career-wise: finding work that wove together those two childhood interests. Three just retired from a long career with Voice of America. Let me share this from VOA’s mission statement:

Since its creation in 1942, Voice of America has been committed to providing comprehensive coverage of the news and telling audiences the truth. Through World War II, the Cold War, the fight against global terrorism, and the struggle for freedom around the globe today, VOA exemplifies the principles of a free press.

Voice of America, https://www.insidevoa.com/p/5831.html

My brother Three hosted an English language radio show broadcast to Africa about his one great love in life: sports. 

Here I was at his retirement, visiting VOA for the first time ever. We arrived at his office near the Mall in Washington, D.C. just in time to witness a motorcade on a neighboring street – police on motorcycles escorting seven black SUVs, sirens blaring. It made me smile to see this, thinking about how many years this was my daily experience, being in the midst of this hustle and bustle. Now, I am like a tourist, oohing and aahing, trying to guess what important person is being chaperoned to the U.S. Capitol.

The VOA building was fascinating. These flags in the entry hall represent all the different languages in which broadcasts are offered:

I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of his retirement function. I quickly assessed how much his colleagues loved him. What a wonderful experience for me, his big sister, to hear these accolades! It was so amazing to view him through this whole new lens.

The line that made me laugh so much:

“If the race was between two dead turtles, he’d still make the race exciting.”

This was one compliment made my eyes water:

He offered me space and freedom to create and express the way I wanted and then he cheered me on.

He would have made a very fine teacher, I think. (Yes, big sister here, having the last word.)

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10 Comments

  1. This is a touching slice that shares so much love and appreciation between siblings. Your capturing of the farewells add a special touch to your story. This is a very moving phrase:
    “It was so amazing to view him through this whole new lens.”

    • Thank you, Juliette! I am so thrilled that I was able to be there for his retirement party, to hear his colleagues’ words.

  2. Maureen,
    What a beautiful tribute to your brother and his service at Voice of America, such a bit organization for spread g democratic values. I love the photo w/ all the flags. I can’t help but think about the way TFG targeted VOA and would likely go after it again if he’s reelected. I hope you’ll share this post w/ your brother. I’m sure he’ll treasure all the accolades from his colleagues.

    • I took copious notes (as you might imagine) and I am trying to create a commemorative poem for him of all these great words. Thanks, Glenda!

  3. Linda Linda

    I love this, and love that you got to be there for him. I giggled at you taking notes – such a teacher (and excellent idea). My sister lives on the other coast, and was not able to attend my retirement party. I am so looking forward to going to hers in a number of years! I bet I take notes, too. : )

    • Thank you, Linda. I retired in June 2020 – there was no retirement party for anyone that June. I told my brother that I wouldn’t miss his – and I would live vicariously. Everyone should have such a nice send off!!

  4. And because you were there all along, you can claim this celebration any way you wish,.When you are born only 13 months apart, and time shrinks between siblings as we age, by now you’re almost twins! I have a feeling you were a supporter all along—and he knows it.. The quip about the dead turtles racing says it all about his professional ability, so glad you shared it! And I love the parenthetical reflection on the word “settled” and all the specifics of that ups-and-downs shared living you offer us. Congratulations to you both!

  5. Maureen, what a wonderful post celebrating your brother and his passion for sports and the radio. Thanks for sharing the moving lines that were stated to explain others admiration for your accomplished brother. It sounds like he would have been a very great teacher. Your post also makes me long to visit D.C. I’ve never been there, and I never thought about what it must be like to live there seeing the sirens and vehicles escorting someone to the capital. I appreciate how much you captured about your relationship with your brother and all of your shared experiences.

  6. Kim Johnson Kim Johnson

    What a beautiful day of celebration for your brother, and I know his experience was brighter and more special having his sister there beside him. It sounds like he is respected and loved by all who worked with him – and having family still Iovi ng and supporting each other is no small thing these days. Glad you had
    This together time!

  7. Maureen, I’m so glad to see that you are going to write a poem for Three with all the beautiful words spoken about him. And so glad you got to witness his retirement party. I love the two dead turtles race being exciting if he reported it, and all the encouraging words from his colleagues. He does sound like a wonderful human!

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