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Dear Cat

It is Tuesday and time to share a Slice of Life. Thank you, Two Writing Teachers, for creating this supportive community of teacher-writers!

This little fellow has gone missing.

He slipped out of an open door at my neighbors’ home four days ago, and has not returned home. 

The door was inadvertently left open by a plumber, who was hard at work on a huge issue (a pinhole leak in pipes in the the front yard) and had no idea there was any reason to NOT leave the door open. 

The neighbors forgot to caution the plumber about the door, because they were so caught up in the stress of the leaking pipe. Also, they hadn’t really thought about the plumber’s need to go inside the house from time to time. 

Now, they are both frantically searching for Dear One. He was a stray, who stumbled upon their backyard as a kitten some nine or ten years ago. There had been a feral pregnant cat in our neighborhood, and this little kitten was quite likely one of her litter. The neighbors noted his gorgeous fluffy fur and his small size, and they set up a humane trap with a bit of food and a warm towel. The little kitten wandered inside and was caught. Dear One became an indoor cat, loved and cared for all these many years by these kind neighbors. 

I have taken care of Dear One many times when my neighbors have been traveling. I know him to be shy and anxious, scurrying away anytime I am in the same room. If the neighbors are gone for longer than a week, Dear One will dare to spend a bit more time with me. I have always considered it a gift on these rare occasions, when he and I can be standing perfectly still, staring at one another from across a room. 

Dear One is not aloof with his owners, of course. Dear One likes to perch on the arm of their chairs when they are working or lounging at home. 

Here’s a list of some of the tricks and lures they are using to attract Dear One back to their home: 

  • contacted a cat expert (a cat whisperer?)
  • posted signs throughout the neighborhood
  • posted on our neighborhood listserv
  • talked with every neighbor
  • set up another humane trap
  • set out some favorite cat toys
  • draped a couple of their shirts on a nearby fence post, for attractive scent
  • there is tuna fish on a plate
  • a cat litter box at the basement entrance
  • vigilantly searched their surroundings and neighboring yards, many, many times

To date, nothing has worked.

They have security cameras on their home, and they witnessed Dear One crossing the backyard around 1-2 a.m. the first two nights. So, they set themselves up in the backyard on the third night, sitting quietly in the dark at the same time, making sweet cat noises. Sadly, no Dear One. 

The fourth night, it was pouring rain. No sign of Dear One. No neighbors sitting out back. 

The security camera showed two foxes, however, bravely crossing through the yard.

This is so unsettling. Everyone feels so helpless. How to lure Dear One back home?

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18 Comments

  1. Nan Nan

    I’m a cat person, so I fell in love with Dear One as soon as I saw his handsome portrait. This was a tender piece, and I do pray for the family and their beloved pet. The mood is well balanced in your writing. The sarcasm in the beginning with the clueless plumber and concerned neighbors brought some humor. I also appreciated the bulleted list of strategies tried. There is nothing I need to know or ask because you informed me, the reader, with everything I needed to know about this family crisis. Well done!

    • Dear One is a gorgeous cat, indeed! That the plumber left the door open – oh my, we just want to scream. It is beyond frustrating. Thanks for commenting!

  2. I’m not the person to ask since I have terrible cat allergies! That said, I cannot believe that none of those things will lure Dear One back!

    • They have been so methodical about luring the cat home – to no avail. The sighting of the two foxes has definitely increased the neighbors’ anxiety. Thanks, Stacey!

  3. Maureen,
    This is heartbreaking. Poor kitty. Poor neighbors who already have so much trauma to process w/ the horrid plumbing issues. Have they contacted animal control? Gone to the shelter? Is the kitty chipped? You may recall me writing about Phoebe last year. He disappeared last summer. We have no clue what happened to him.

    • I don’t think they do have a chip in the cat – but I will ask. Thanks for these additional suggestions. It is really heartbreaking.

  4. Oh, this is a sad story. I hope we’ll come back to see a sweet reunion soon on your blog. Missing cats leave holes in our hearts. Hoping for a good outcomes for Dear One and his onwers.

    • Thank you! I feel as if sharing the story has helped send good vibes out into the world, and hopefully Dear One will return home. We can hope!

  5. ARGH! I would be beside myself. I love the tactics they have used to lure Dear One home. Oh, I hope it works, that he’s been hiding, outlasting the foxes. Cats are resilient. Thanks for sending us this to enlist our good thoughts for your neighbors.

  6. Oh, Maureen, this is so sad. I can tell everyone has worked hard to find Dear One. What a beautiful cat, too. Shoot! I sure hope they find Dear One. Your post shares everything so well from why the cat got out to what is happening up to the current moment.

    • It’s been such a big deal for the past four days, I couldn’t imagine writing about anything else. We don’t have pets – but I know how much they are loved. Thanks, Barb!

  7. Denise Krebs Denise Krebs

    Oh, Maureen, I’m so sorry for Dear One’s getting lost. He is a dolly. I do hope a miracle is in order. Prayers for a safe return, and a follow up post of good news. Are they checking with the humane society or wherever lost cats/dogs are impounded? All the best.

  8. Kim Johnson Kim Johnson

    My heart hurts just thinking about the feeling of worry and concern over this beloved pet. I have often heard that a load of dirty laundry placed in the car with the heater on and the windows down will emit the scent of the owners if the pet is lost and looking for home. The only other thing I could think to do would be to set a trap door style cage so that if he does return (and it sounds like he might be since he’s been seen on camera), he can be held safely in the trap until he can be brought indoors. I’m so sorry for your neighbors. They have been through a lot lately. I’ll bet the plumber feels horrible, too.

  9. Maureen, for some reason, I can’t get the comment box to open up on Shedding the Wild. I’m thrilled to read about Dear One’s return home. You did a great job describing the capture. No need for a video, you had us there beside you stretching out on the ground!

  10. Maureen, I’m having the same problem as Ramona. Anyway, I loved the back story about Dear One. I think you guys might have tried some cat treats to lure Dear One out from under the shed. Sounds like Dear One is happy now. I’m so glad you were able to get him/her home safely!

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