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#SOL24-2 Orchid

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This day is so rainy, I don’t know how much light Dear Orchid will receive this morning. All the same, I think she likes it here, sitting on the table next to me, listening to my early morning chatter. We both enjoy watching the sun warm up this room, spreading its happy rays about. 

That’s not happening today, with this steady rain.  

My early morning routine these past couple of months: strive to get up around sunrise, stumble walk my stiff aging feet to the front living room, pick up Dear Orchid and carry her to the window at the back of the house, the family room, to soak in the sun from the day. Next, turn on the space heater, to warm up the family room. Make myself a cup of tea and settle down in the chair alongside her, and write.

My pets are my plants. I don’t have the four legged variety. I have green leafy ones. 

Dear Orchid is proving to be a challenge. She means a lot to me – a gift at my birthday back in early December from my son’s girlfriend. I adore the girlfriend – one must keep the plant thriving, right?

Within a matter of weeks of her arrival, Dear Orchid began to show signs of acute stress. Her flowers and leaves began to droop and, most ominously, a new flower bud dropped off without opening. All my other houseplants are thriving in this room; Dear Orchid was not. 

Orchids are sensitive plants, needing just the right light and warmth. I realized that the family room is much too cold overnight for Dear Orchid, at this time of year. Fresh from a greenhouse, I am sure she wasn’t spending her nights in temperatures in the 50s, as this room can be overnight – oh my. Dear Orchid made her protests clear to me. 

I have patience for her, because I am sensitive, too. As a child, that adjective was a pejorative – “Oh, Maureen, you are way too sensitive!” All these years later, I can still hear the dismissive, taunting sound of the insult. No time for such nonsense in a military family, I guess. Cold and tough was better. In time (and therapy, of course), I learned the beauty of my sensitivity, my ability to pause and listen, to feel empathy, and to take care of others. Why shouldn’t we try to understand one another and meet each other’s needs?

What was I to do about Dear Orchid? 

The daylight in the family room was perfect, the dark of night was not. 

Our warm living room in the front of the house has a windowsill right above a radiator. However, it doesn’t get a lot of sun during the day, making it too dark for Dear Orchid. 

So began my intensive care regimen – letting the living room windowsill be Dear Orchid’s cozy warm ‘bed’ overnight, and bringing her into the happy sunshine of the family room for her days. We’ve been doing this routine for about eight weeks now and I am hopeful that it is just the right mix for her. Certainly, it is working for me – I enjoy her company. She brightens my writing nook. 

May she still be blossoming when my son and his girlfriend drop by again.

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20 Comments

  1. Joanne C Toft Joanne C Toft

    Yes, I have a similar routine with my orchid that is now four years old. I don’t move my daily. I have sunroom that just gets to cold for mine. So when fall comes she moves upstairs to my office window facing south. There she sits until the warm of late spring. It is usually when she is flowering. Then she gets to join the other plants for the summer and early fall. Enjoy that beautiful orchid.

  2. Terje Terje

    I admire anyone who can take care of plants. Your Dear Orchid is beautiful. So is the story you wrote about taking care of it.

  3. Maureen, Dear Orchid is a beauty! She seems to enjoy your company.

    My husband once brought some dying orchids home from work. Somehow I’ve managed to keep them alive. I have one that bloomed several weeks ago, the others are waiting for new shoots. I moved her to be near me as well. They make great writing companions.

    I like how she represents the joy she brings you when your son and his girlfriend stop by to visit. You have welcomed the orchid as you seem to have welcomed your son’s girlfriend.

    • Yes, orchids are wonderful writing companions – I agree. Thanks for noticing that I have welcomed my son’s girlfriend – this is so true!

  4. I do not do well with plants. However, I do wonder if I have the time for them now that the kids are gone. I just went to an orchid exhibit at the botanical gardens, and I did not buy one because I thought I would kill it. Maybe it is time to go back and give it a try as I need something to tend to these days. I did learn a lot from you post.

    • Thank you, Heather! I don’t know if I would ever have bought an orchid for myself; I, too, feared I would kill one. This learning has been a gift. I hope I am successful – my fingers are crossed!

  5. Maureen,
    Your sensitivity shines through in most of your posts but especially in this one. I love orchids and have committed horticultural homicide on more than one, so I bought an orchid necklace last year in Thailand. It’s a real orchid so will last despite my poor houseplant skills. I do hope your orchid thrives w/ all the care you’re providing her.

  6. kim johnson kim johnson

    Maureen, your blog today brings delight and movement. I am walking on my own aging feet through your house, following you with this orchid ,and I can relate to the orchid as a gift. My aunt gave me one when I finished a degree program in 2016, and it had a thin dowel attached by a tiny claw clip, the kind you see holding a strand of hair back, to hold the orchid up.

    I lost the plant.

    I tried every trick, throwing an ice cube in every Sunday to water it just right.

    But I had no business raising any orchids.

    Only the claw clip remains. From time to time, I pull a strand of hair back and thank my aunt for good vibes and overestimating my ability to keep an orchid thriving. I love your post today – – and I wish you absolutely all the best in orchid care. Sounds like you are winning!

    • Ha! Only the claw clip remains! You have given me a bit of hope here – I can continue to have the memory of this sweet orchid, if my caregiving fails. Loved this, Kim!

  7. Tom Tom

    I love the personification of this sensitive plant cast in the light of your embrace of your sensitive side. We have an old orchid in our laundry room that gets weekly water and finds a way to share its blooms each year. My wife is a horticulturist and claims that just forgetting about them in dormancy (with a commitment to periodic water) is enough to keep them coming back.

  8. May the tender care you are providing your orchid keep it in beautiful bloom for that visit. I so related to your paragraph about being told you were to sensitive as a child. I heard that many, many times from my older siblings. I always felt something was wrong with me. Now I have learned that it truly is a gift to be able to empathize and feel other’s feelings.

  9. May the tender care you are providing your orchid keep it in beautiful bloom for that visit. I so related to your paragraph about being told you were to sensitive as a child. I heard that many, many times from my older siblings. I always felt something was wrong with me. Now I have learned that it truly is a gift to be able to empathize and feel other’s feelings.

  10. Maureen, how cute is that that your orchid is named Dear Orchid? I enjoyed reading your post and learning more about you and Dear Orchid. Good job figuring out what she needed. She looks beautiful in the photo, for sure.

  11. Maureen, I am so glad you found a solution to keep your orchid thriving. Orchids are so beautiful but they are sensitive. I hope it is still blooming for your family! Lovely post!

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